This saying “Bees are more attracted to Honey than Vinegar” is a common saying… actually there are multiple derivatives of this… such as:
You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar
The “fly” version of this may have been first said by Benjamin Franklin, but the actual source is unknow…
Anyway… what this is getting at, is that it is easier to persuade others (the bee or the fly) with polite requests, positive feedback, and “being nice” (the Honey), rather than being rude, Negative, or demanding…
I just wanted to point out that MOST of the time this forum is very positive, and very helpful. But there have been times where the discussions get a little heated. That heat can sometimes scare off really good folks.
Sometimes, we (Epicor Employees, partners, etc) are simply delivering the message. Sometimes we may even agree with you, but we don’t want to throw another employee under the bus (career limiting move) so we simply deliver the news that “Epicor has decided”.
so… don't shoot the messenger - Wiktionary, the free dictionary or it might have the unintended consequences of scaring off people, or making them less transparent.
(audio version: Don’t shoot the Messenger)
(note, please don’t take this as a threat.. i thing I have proven over and over again that I have a thick skin and let these things roll off my back… I don’t like negativity, and it does bother me, but not enough to stop me from calling you my friends.)